I was out with fren last night, we were stuck in the *holy crap* massive traffic jam in one of the Jalan in town…No surprise, the efficient Malaysian police officers doing ‘spot check’ again… but it was a pretty good opportunity for both of us to chit-chat. As we have known each others for years but yet to have any ‘deep’ personal talk. I started off with my stories-sharing..*bla bla bla..* and continue with his.. and we both were juz like tat spent more than 2 hours in the car meaning we’ve stuck the same duration on the road. *Thanks to police officers again, whut the…* He recently juz started a new relationship. I learned that his love confession was amazingly *CUTE*

I think it’s an effective confession to your love one.. they both were crushing on each others for sometimes.. and came to a night.. my fren finally braved out his feeling..

G: Mmm.. from today onwards you are my other half oledi ar..

J: Mmm.. errrrrrr….(silent for 3 seconds) OK geh…*shy*

G: OK la.. You are my baby from today onwards..

J: Mmm.. like tat also can ar..

He had the happiest smile on the face ever

Although the confession was pretty short but it’s was very cleaned and straight forward, comparing with those without-ending-hesitate experiences. Love it!!

My friends around me always told my network is pretty wide like Maxis = many friends. I thought for a sec, I guess maybe some people might just presume that from my appearance & attitude. But the fact is i'm friendly. 

It’s almost mandatory that you will save your FRIEND’s contact details into your cell. TODAY I checked my contact usage. I have 288 in SIM card memory and 345 in Phone. Out of which, they are taxi hotline, car workshop, credit card centers, karaoke and around 50 other non-friend numbers.

How do you know you've found a friend? To me, I will consider the person as friend when I’m ready to talk to the person about yourself.. in short, TRUST. Without hesitate, dictionary again..

Friend = A person you know well and regard with affection and trust

I did a search in my contact list again, i searched carefully. I juz realized there are only a few persons that I would like to share my personal stuffs. There was once a friend told me, "You don't need to have many friends; TRUE FRIEND you only need ONE!"

I have a 亨第幫 @ LunChais Gang - 5 of us. How many 12-years-friend you can have in life? Maybe you will tell me, “I got many ar!”; Ask yourself again, “How many of them are true to you?” If your answer is still remained the same, then the fact is either (a) YOU ARE SUPER GREAT or (b) YOU ARE CHEATING URSELF! We’ve known each others for around 12 years. In mathematic, we have spent 50% percent of the lifetime together up-to-date. But with the age are growing up; our distances (physically & mentally) between each others are also broad-ing up. The chances and frequency that we are meeting each others are getting slimmer and lesser. The fact is everyone has their personal life & started their own career.

Somehow rather I’m still got this buddy – Gimmy aka Mingkai who accompanying me everyday. We used to do things together - basketball, schooling, Mamak, tuition, movie, K.O.F (indoor & outdoor) and many many things.. Thanks to the technology, we are still messaging thru the online messenger everyday and we both have a same addiction, DOTA!! *pai seh* and NO LIE, we are good partner in dota game too! Pudge + Techie or Mirana + Luna *HOLY SHxT* I know this fellow since I was primary school.. we started with hating each others, slowly adapted each others personality and finally became good friends. He is pretty straight forward person. I always assume that he is only has YES or NO in his mind which this is a good and also bad about him. If you can imagine an A.I robot, he most probably looks like 1; and with the robot behaves, he doesn’t fake his feeling, he is very truthful *at least in-front of me*, I am very comfortable to have him as a friend.

I have another good buddy named DD. *not the Dexter’s DeeDee; just DD*. He is the very first buddy that I have. Our family backgrounds are very contrast, but I’m very blessed that he never looks down on me and be my friend sincerely. When you were young, you wouldn’t understand whut is friend means. You would just feel the bonding, and this bonding had kept us very strong. I’m trying to recall when was the last time we fought, but the fact is I couldn’t remember any. *please tell me if you do, DD* It’s difficult to meet someone who has the right chemistry with you. We both always know whut each others have in mind. *Trust me, it’s creepy!!* Sadly, he has moved to to study and continues his career in Brisbane. If not, guess we would have a lot of fun..

Alvin Lee, my gang tai lo. Why tai lo? Coz he is slightly older and he is high intelligence & logical sense. I learnt pretty a lot from him especially from his speaking skills and E.Q. Beside this, he is also manly & high egotism, but he never siu-hei (petty attitude), he doesn’t hate the person more than a day. *maybe because he is forgetful* He started many happening stuffs for the gang.. example: ICQ, mp3, X-Men, Playstation, Star Wars, Neopets, CounterStrike, Dota and etc etc. Without him, guess my life will turn into “Kampung Story”!! This fellow has another talent, Arguing. *Opss, Debating!* He doesn’t mean & bitching around but if happened that if u ter-press his button, you should have dead under his saliva. You either will just like or hate him.

Last member, WeeKuan aka Wosip. He had a big fight with the gang member lately, and he quitted the gang forum, since then I am losing his news. However, there is nothing good about him anyway. (Wosip, if you happened to see this, I’m just joking) LMAO!!!

Beside the old-time pals, you will also meet some other people along your life journey. The road can’t be just all the way smooth. Maybe once awhile you right turn, you will find another highway, WOOHOO!! Or Opps! worst, you will get into a dead end. No doubt, I’ve met few 'dead-end' friends in my life, but no worry, as long a you know how to make U-turn, you will back to your smoothly highway.  

Thru a friend’s recommendation, i met my chum – Terence. He is the combination of DD + Alvin. I believe he is equally or even higher E.Q than Alvin. Just wonder what will happened if I put him and Alvin together in a room for a day. We were immediate clicked after few times met and since then we been joked around, for every single things. And also I suspected he has Professor X power, he read my mind most of the time. How do you know you've found your good friend? When you are ready to talk to the person about anything, even though he/she already knows everything about you. We shared everything: office stuffs, friends’ politics, relationship problems and anything u can think of. He is hell a lot of FUN.. His world is 24x7 under a movie camera. He turns everything into a drama and he makes the world greatest jokes!

Dramatically, Jason ran into my life in last year Oct *or maybe earlier*. We knew each others from an Internet social network website. He found me randomly from juz clicking from Internet. After we chatted couple of times online, I found him very funny and nonsense. I asked him for a free invitation movie by another friend who working in magazine company. Since then, he has glued *Super glue* to me until now. He is a “friend-always-first” type person. I felt guilty towards him bcoz I rejected him for most of his hang out invitations, but of coz he never sui-hee and put this in mind.

A world without a friend, what would it be? It would be like a world without water, something you need.. 

I'd like to be the sort of friend that you have been to me.. I'd like to be the help you've always been glad to be; I'd like to mean as much to you each minute of the day, as you have meant, old friend of mine, to me along the way." Relationships come and go, but friends will last a lifetime.